Help for friends
If your friend has told you that they have been sexually abused or raped, it is really important that your friend gets some help, and tells an adult about what is happening.
If your friend has come to you having just been raped, it is important to take him/her straight to the Police Station or Doctors/Hospital. This is because there will be evidence on his/her body that will help the Police to catch the rapist. Therefore, ask your friend not to change their clothes or wash their body until after they have seen the Police.
You can help your friend by listening to them and believing them. Try not to ask too many questions and understand that it is not their fault. You could also help them to find out where they can get help. Click on ”Where do I go for help” for more information.
Seek some support for yourself too, it is an extremely difficult time for you.
YoungMinds is the national charity committed to improving the mental health of all children and young people
www.youngminds.org.uk
They also have a parents information service 0800 018 2138